4.Admit clearly and readily when you are wrong.Very few people will make you suffer if you admit a mistake and most will then do their utmost to be constructive as a result.It will also make them more ready to admit their own mistakes. 5.Express through your behavior as well as your words that you respect them even if you don't agree with them.(The argument should not be your personality against theirs!)It is also important to express through your behaviors that you are neither aggressive,not,on the other hand,weak and full of false apologies
4. Admit clearly and readily when you are wrong. Very few people will make you suffer if you admit a mistake and most will then do their utmost to be constructive as a result. It will also make them more ready to admit their own mistakes. 5. Express through your behavior as well as your words that you respect them even if you don’t agree with them. (The argument should not be your personality against theirs!) It is also important to express through your behaviors that you are neither aggressive, not , on the other hand, weak and full of false apologies
If you are arguing logically: 1.Be clear what your main belief is and don't forget it.It is very powerful when someone is clear and determined and won't be distracted. 2.Only use examples to illustrate your main point.Don't let their examples become important in themselves. 3.Choose examples which the other person knows or can imagine and understands in a similar way to you.It is essential to look for experiences hat you share
If you are arguing logically: 1. Be clear what your main belief is and don’t forget it. It is very powerful when someone is clear and determined and won’t be distracted. 2. Only use examples to illustrate your main point. Don’t let their examples become important in themselves. 3. Choose examples which the other person knows or can imagine and understands in a similar way to you. It is essential to look for experiences hat you share
If you are arguing emotionally: 1.Have a clear feeling even if you can't name it. 2.Concentrate on examples rather than on general statements. 3.Choose examples which you know the other person has strong feelings about. Based on How to Communicate Successfully by Andrew Wright
If you are arguing emotionally: 1. Have a clear feeling even if you can’t name it. 2. Concentrate on examples rather than on general statements. 3. Choose examples which you know the other person has strong feelings about. Based on How to Communicate Successfully by Andrew Wright